Turning 30: It's not so bad after all!

Well, the big 3-0 has come and gone and left me feeling...pretty much the same as I did on October 17! In fact, it was a splendid birthday; a day full of kind wishes, thoughtful presents, and expressions of love. And the celebrations will continue with a dinner date tonight as well as a Mad Men cocktail party Jeremy is throwing me at the end of the month! I'd say that turning 30 was a complete success!

My little 30x30 project, on the other hand, did not fair as well. I had wonderful intentions (as we all do), but...time got away from me, I was lazy, I was busy, I started strong and finished weak, I was pregnant....numerous excuses abound. I managed to cross off eight to-do items from my list of 30. It seems kind of lame that less than 1/3 of the list was completed. However, my 30th year lasts for another 364 days, and therefore I will strive to accomplish more as the year unfolds.

1. cross the Golden Gate bridge on foot or bike

2. eat breakfast on the beach

3. make Grandma Babchuk's cabbage rolls recipe

4. pay for a stranger's coffee in the Starbucks drive-thru

5. watch "The Wizard of Oz"

6. bake homemade bread

7. travel out of state or country (Seattle 3.19.11-3.21.11)

8. buy myself a bouquet of fresh flowers (irises 3.27.11)

9. plant a vegetable garden

10. paint in my living room/kitchen/dining area...maybe

11. finish reading the Harry Potter series before the last movie hits theaters in July (5.10.11)

12. fit my booty back into my favorite pair of jeans

13. write and mail a handwritten letter every week

14. purchase printmaking supplies and create an original lino-cut print (9.10.11)

15. go dancing (Paso Robles - 3.11.11)

16. refinish an old buffet/sideboard table for my dining area

17. volunteer (Serve Dei w/ Life Group 5.23.11)

18. scrapbook SF '10 & Seattle trips

19. hike in Sequoia National Park

20. go to a concert

21. deliver cookies to a neighbor

22. send our sponsor child, Rakib, six letters, notes or pictures

23. leave 30 sticky notes of encouragement in random places

24. eat at Dusty Buns Bistro (9.22.11)

25. do one pull-up

26. wash my car once a month

27. tip a server the full amount of my entire bill

28. go on a hot date to Ripe Tomato

29. roast a whole chicken (7.17.11)

30. take a yoga class


So here's to finishing my list before next year!

Ending on a good note...

Ready for a night out on the town!

My birthday week concluded Saturday with a wonderful evening spent at Campagnia and the Fresno Philharmonic. Jeremy & I were smokin’ hot; Jeremy in his dapper suit, and I in my sexy little dress and heels that absolutely kill my feet! Campagnia never fails to impress, and, as expected, dinner was delicious. Jeremy ordered the filet mignon with spinach and sun-dried tomato ravioli, and I had the braised short ribs with garlic mashed potatoes. Yum.

After dinner we headed downtown to the William Saroyan Theatre for an evening of classical music. We don’t go to the symphony all too often, and every time I attend a performance I wonder why that is. I truly love it.

Not only was the music incredible, but so was the company. Seated next to us were a wonderful 85-year-old man and his 80-year-old wife. This older gentleman was one of those people you could sit with for hours, listening to a lifetime of stories and learning from his 85 years rich with experiences. He spoke of his time as a gunner on the B-29 heavy bomber aircraft during World War II, how he returned home to marry his bride, went on to earn his bachelor’s degree from the University of Montana and later went on to receive his PhD in Genetics. To celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary this summer, he and his wife retraced the route they took on their honeymoon, traveling throughout Montana, Idaho and up into the Canadian Rockies. Next year they plan on visiting Alaska. “See, that’s what you get to do when you’re retired,” he said with a grin.

As a season ticket holder, he also imparted to us some knowledge about the Philharmonic. As the beautiful Steinway piano was rolled out to the center of the stage, he leaned over and asked if we had heard about the Philharmonic’s extensive search for the exquisite piano, which cost about $200,000. With unmasked excitement on his face, he eagerly told us that this Steinway had a beautiful “voice” and exclaimed that it was a “wonderful piano.” Indeed he was correct; after listening to the first few notes rise from the keys, I knew we were in for a treat.

This particular performance featured guest pianist, Orli Shaham, playing Frederic Chopin’s Piano Concerto No. 2 in F minor. As an amateur piano player (and much unpracticed as of late) I was captivated by the fluidity of her movement and how quickly her fingers danced across the keys. It was beautiful and moving; goose bumps rose along my arms as I listened, and I was swept away. That’s the wonderful thing about sitting in a dark theatre listening to an orchestra play; the music washes over you, and all at once your mind is collectively racing and perfectly still.

Cobb Ranch and birthday cake

My 29th birthday is tomorrow. All I wanted for my birthday was the feeling of fall. It’s been so hot here all month and the thought of a cool evening, a cozy fire, hot drinks, and hearty soup gave me warm fuzzies. My wish was granted Saturday evening thanks to my beloved sister-in-law, Marisa (although she didn’t exactly have any control over the weather, which was still hovering around 87 degrees at 6 p.m.). However, the temperature cooled as the sun began to set, and I was blessed to spend a lovely fall evening with a handful of sweet friends celebrating another year.

We started out at the Historic Cobb Ranch, located minutes from Fresno on Highway 41, where patrons can find the perfect pumpkin in the pumpkin patch, eat treats from the concession, go on hay rides, push kids around on wheel barrows, and get lost in the corn maze. The corn maze was the alluring feature that drew us to Cobb Ranch on this particular night. This year the maze was designed in honor of the 100th anniversary of the Boy Scouts of America. With 2.5 miles of trails carved into five acres of 10-foot corn stalks, it’s no easy task to find ones way through the twists, turns and dead-ends. I’m not exactly sure how long it took us to master the maze, however, with a little help from a nice family who wisely brought along a flashlight, we managed to escape unscathed. I was happy to finally visit Cobb Ranch and experience the quintessential fall festivities I’ve so often heard of for the past eight years living in the Valley. Unfortunately the ranch is closing its doors at the end of this season, so for those in the Fresno area wishing to make a visit this fall, now is the time go.

A very blurry picture of us in front of the corn maze at Cobb Ranch

After conquering the maze, we headed back to Marisa’s house where we ate delicious chili, enjoyed chocolate birthday cake (my favorite), gathered around the outdoor fire pit (FYI: skip the Duraflame and use real firewood!), sipped hot cider and visited into the night. Marisa so thoughtfully contacted some of my friends and family in Canada asking them to write me a birthday note. Each one was printed out and hung with ribbon from the trees in her backyard. The notes were lovely and heartwarming; I felt beyond blessed and am so thankful for my loved ones, both near and far.

It was a perfectly relaxing, cozy fall evening with good company, a local attraction and an inviting home…happy birthday to me!